Continuing the theme that our babies might actually be born: M and I started to think about daycare options. The thought was that she would stay home for a few months. Few months later, I take unpaid family medical leave for 2-3 months. That WAS the plan.
Who knew that daycare in Manhattan for twins would essentially be my entire pay check? We never thought that we would be here- looking and discussing how to uh- take care of the children and would one of us stay home? Two mommies and each wants to be the stay at home mom. Sounds like a dilemma. Fortunately for me, the birth mom makes more money. I hope she doesn't read this post.
Reason 107 to Leave NYC: Monthly bill for 2 babies at new daycare center opening down the street: 4,000 dollars.
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This is M - I always read the blog! : ) We need to make decisions based on what is best for the family - I have better health care, and bigger dollars...but I'll get my turn. :)
I'd rather have their mom at home with them, then to pay any money to strangers!
From stay-at-home parent. If you and your partner feel in your gut that you really can't see anybody but you raising your kids and you can swing it financially (and a lot of that depends on your lifestyle choices), then do it! If one of you can stay home...do it! The first three years are so crucial for so many reasons. Just Google Zero to Three.
M has told me that she will be envious if I get to stay home with babies. I admire her honesty. I have a bit of envy that they are in her womb right now. Oh, how life can be hard. Thanks for the tip- going to check out old mr. google.
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